**Disclosure Statement: I was not financially compensated for this post. I received a sample for review purposes. The opinions are completely my own based on my experience.**

​Today I am super excited to be bringing you a new review! For the past month or so, I have been putting a Wrapsody Breeze woven wrap through the paces. It has been the ONLY wrap I've used for the last 5 weeks, with my ever-growing 3 year old and my trusty demo-doll. And you know what, I love it! If I had a young baby and needed to pare down to only one wrap, this one would be a strong contender! 

I have been wearing my children in a variety of carriers for nearly 8 years, and paying close attention to the baby carrier industry and the community of hobbyist wearers for nearly that long. During this time, I've seen many changes in the industry, the community, and the market. There has been a huge growth in the number and variety of carrier manufacturers, with new makers debuting every year, and some manufacturers closing up shop. Some manufacturers have remained constant with a dash of well-planned innovation. Wrapsody is one such manufacturer. It was founded in 2004 and its story is incredible and interwoven (see what I did there?) with the stories of the babywearing community and industry. 

When companies approach me to do a review, I am choosy about who I say "yes" to. While doing a review may seem like fun (it is!), it is also a lot of work, and I want to be sure I am putting in that work for a company whose values align with my own. When Wrapsody asked if I was interested in writing a review, I was thrilled! Not only are they a long-time and well-respected manufacturer, they are well-known for their incredible mission that goes well beyond "just" making baby carriers. Wrapsody's core values integrate sustainability, evidence-based practice, collective responsibility and social justice, and supporting strong communities. I frequently refer to articles from their education section (the drop down menu from the "babywearing" tab on their website) and blog. 

Wrapsody makes four different carriers (the Breeze, the Hybrid stretch wrap, the DuO water/sport wrap, and the Artisan ring sling) as well as wearable and functional clothing and accessories. They sent me their Breeze wrap, which is the original product upon which Wrapsody was founded. It is a woven wrap made of a gauze material. The words that come to mind when describing the Breeze are: lightweight, versatile, comfortable, and beautiful.

Lightweight: The Breeze is made of a gauzey cotton. When you hold it up to the light, you can easily see through the material, as the threads are not woven closely together. This means that it is lightweight, packs down very small (in a handy built-in pocket on one of the tails of the wrap), and it is breathable, which makes for cooler wearing for both child and caregiver. For warm-weather wearing or for babies or caregivers who "run hot," this is an excellent carrier! 

Versatile: A woven wrap is the most versatile baby carrier, in that you can use it with any size baby or child, wrap the child on your front, hip, or back, and do a number of different types of carries that change how your body is bearing the child's weight as well as where the child is positioned. When my shoulders are achy, I can switch to a torso carry, and when I need to have the weight a little higher on my body and my child wants to see over my shoulder, I can do a rucksack carry. The Wrapsody Breeze can be used with children from newborn through 35 pounds. I used it to do a "babywearing challenge" to try out a number of different carries with my demo doll which is slightly larger than a newborn. I also used it with my 35 pound 3 year old. It is 24 inches wide, which makes it a great width for a newborn, infant, or small to average toddler, but I personally prefer a bit more width for my very tall and leggy child who prefers to snuggle deep in the wrap. (Wrapsody's Hybrid wrap is 30 inches wide which works a bit better for me). 

Comfortable: In wrap "technical terms" the Breeze was quite moldable (this is my top personal preference out of all wrap qualities) as it snugly conformed to my body and my wearee's body easily, and it had a nice amount of grip (but not too much!) as the fabric easily held a slipknot and various multi-layer carries did not slide out of place, but it also was fairly easy to slide passes into place. One of the things I was worried about with the Breeze was whether it would be diggy since it was so thin. It wasn't, at least for me, but I could understand how it might be for some. I did have to be sure to carefully tighten or pull out the slack from each pass in order for the fabric to lay comfortably, but as long as I did that, it wasn't diggy at all. I would argue that the Breeze (or the Wrapsody Hybrid) is a wonderful first or only wrap because it will help you develop precise wrapping technique! 

Beautiful: Wrapsody Breeze wraps are known for their lovely hand-dyed and batik colorways. According to the company they are manufactured in Bali, Indonesia by a small business owned by a single mother (another great reason to support this company!). Many of the designs have an organic feel to them, so they align with my aesthetic preferences. Some retailers who carry Wrapsody have exclusive colorways, and there are also some commemorative colorways honoring an organization or a specific person. There a variety of colors from bright to soft, muted to saturated, dark to light. There are not a lot of geometric or ultra-modern designs, so if that is more your style, Wrapsody might not be your cup of tea. One feature that I love is that many of the designs have different colors along each rail, or a gradation that spans the width of the wrap. This makes Wrapsody wraps (both the Breeze and the Hybrid) really excellent for learning to wrap. I love using them to teach new wrappers! (if you want to learn to use a carrier, you can find a babywearing group via this list compiled by Wrapsody, and if you'd like to start your own group to help other caregivers and babies, you can use this guide!)

Things to know about Wrapsody wraps: There are a couple things that Wrapsody does differently from many other woven wrap companies, notably their sizing and instructions. Wrapsody offers three different sizes of Breeze wraps, ranging from 4.6 meters to 5.5 meters. This size range allows for most caregivers to have a Breeze in their "base" size (the size that lets you do Front Wrap Cross Carry without having too much leftover tail). Very petite or slim caregivers might find even the smallest size to be a bit long. Typically, you can use up a bit of extra length by doing a fancy finish or by adding some reinforcing passes around the baby or tied around your waist. It is possible to "chop" a Breeze to make a shorter wrap. I personally would use the extra length to add extra passes. Additionally, the instructions booklet may be a bit confusing, as it uses different names for carries and positions than the generally accepted names in the community. One example of this is Wrapsody's "Hip Pouch" carry, which is called "Robin's Hip Carry" in nearly every instructional YouTube video demonstrating this particular carry. (Wrapsody does have video instructions on its site for all of the carries in the instruction book). This may be fine for those who know different carries already, but confusing for those who are trying to look up videos. 

In short, the Wrapsody Breeze is a wonderfully lightweight and versatile woven wrap that is excellent for newborns, infants, and average to shorter toddlers. It shines in carries that have cross passes, sling passes, and torso passes. It would not be my first choice for carries that involve ruck straps with heavy babies, and I did not love it with my very tall 3 year old.

It would be a wonderful first woven wrap for those who are committed to learn to wrap with care, or a nice addition to a carrier stash for those who are wanting something lightweight.. It is different from any other wrap I've tried (I've tried MANY), and I loved it! If you haven't tried a Breeze, this summer would be the ideal time to change that! Wrapsody would love to welcome you to their online family! 

While most people can understand and appreciate the benefits of babywearing for little babies and their families, there are a lot of good things to be said about wearing big kids, too. 

My older daughter (now age 7) was a baby who loved to be worn. She would settle into any carrier I had and snuggle right into me. She went through a few months on "wearing strike" around the time she learned to walk, where she preferred walking to hitching a ride on my back. After the strike was over, she continued to love our daily walks or snuggling in a carrier around the house.

As she got (much) older and (much) heavier, I wore her less, but still found that wearing was a great tool: it was still a convenient way to carry her when I needed to keep her safe or she was tired of walking, it helped her relax when she was fighting sleep, and wearing seemed to bring her some calm and us both some connection, after an all-too-frequent preschool meltdown. In addition, it was still a wonderful way for us to have close interaction - as we took a hike or a long walk, she engaged in the constant stream of consciousness chatter for which preschoolers are famous. And when she was sick, it brought her comfort to be held close to my body. Now a "big kid," she still asks if she can ride on my back, and on occasion I indulge her. She still loves it (so do I!) and it still resets our connection if it's been strained.  

Wearing can also be a special tool for parents of big kids with special needs. Parents of kids with low muscle tone, visual impairment, or sensory needs (and many other special needs) may find that using a carrier can be convenient, calming, or enriching for their child. If you have questions about using a carrier with your child with special needs, please consult with your child's health care professionals. Many babywearing professionals will collaborate with health care professionals to help families find the right carrying solution for their child. 

Woven wraps and ring slings can be used with bigger kids, for varying lengths of time or dependent on the caregiver, child, and the situation. Many people prefer mei tai or buckle carriers for "big kids." Most toddlers can still be worn in standard size soft structured carriers like Ergo, Boba 4G, Tula, Beco Soleil and Lillebaby Complete. Some caregivers (and toddlers) find "toddler size" carriers to be more comfortable for a variety of reasons (taller and wider panel being the usual reason). Some toddler and preschool carriers are also tested to a higher weight limit than standard size carriers. 

Here is a list of some of the current specifically toddler or preschool size carriers (buckle carriers and a couple of mei tais) on the market today. Most of these are only available from specialty stores or direct from the manufacturer. 

- Tula Toddler
- Beco Toddler
- Angelpack MAX
- Kinderpack Toddler
- Kinderpack Preschool
- Kanga XT
- Kanga XTP
- Lillebaby CarryOn
- Soul Slings Full Buckle Toddler
- Lenny Lamb Ergonomic Carrier Toddler
- ToddlerHawk mei tai (from select retailers, limited supply)
- Fidella Fly Tai Toddler size mei tai
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​Remember when we talked about why you should avoid buying a fake or knockoff carrier? The temptation is strong but the risks are not worth it! 

So, what do you do if you are a parent who wants to wear your baby, but you are on a limited budget? Everyone is telling you that you need a Tula, or you see woven wraps that you think are beautiful but that price tag is steep! 

With all baby carrier purchases, it's important to be informed.

• Know what you buying or making, when it will be useful (and when it won't), whether it fits you, and whether it meets your family's needs. Buying a stretchy wrap for a heavy older baby does not make sense, especially long-term. Neither does buying a standard size buckle carrier (like an Ergo without an insert) to carry a newborn.
• If you are buying a used carrier, be sure to check for recalls, particularly avoiding the Infantino SlingRider which has been recalled can still be found secondhand.
• Also be sure to check that the buckles are not chipped or cracked, the webbing or ties are not torn or frayed, the seams are intact, and the fabric does not have holes. (I will write another blog post on this soon!)

One great opportunity for research is attending a babywearing group meeting. Many babywearing groups have lending libraries where you can borrow a carrier for a month to see how you like it. You can keep borrowing, month after month, in many cases! Sometimes there are fees associated with borrowing, but these are almost always lower than the price of a carrier. Some groups have scholarships for families who cannot afford membership or rental fees. 

If you are willing to buy a secondhand carrier, you can often find really great bargains. See this post for more details, including the importance of inspecting your carrier. And DIY is another great option for affordable carriers. Learn more here! 

If you prefer to buy a new carrier, there are many great options available in the "under $50" and "under $100" price ranges. If you are coupon savvy or regularly scan the clearance racks and pay attention to sales, you can usually save even more off the list price. Some of the carriers listed below are available at big box stores (or their online versions), some are available from the manufacturers themselves, and some are only available from online specialty retailers. Use caution when buying from Amazon (be sure that the seller is authorized) to avoid ending up with a counterfeit. ​


Below are just some of the options that retail for under $50 and under $100. There are many carriers that retail for higher than $100 but can be found for less if you buy secondhand. (Boba, Ergo, Beco, and Tula come to mind). 

​Options under $50 (retail)
Moby Wrap (stretchy wrap)
Boba Wrap (stretchy wrap)
Happy Wrap (stretchy wrap)
Baby K'tan - original (stretchy wrap)
Sleeping Baby Productions - twill (ring sling)
Soul Sling - certain models (ring sling and some lengths of wraps)
Bibetts - linen (ring sling)
Zanytoes - cotton (ring sling)
Wallypop - cotton or linen (ring sling)
Peanut Shell (adjustable pouch)
Seven Sling (non-adjustable pouch)
Infantino Sash (meh dai)
WallyPop - canvas without padded straps (meh dai)
Mothers on the Move, or Mo+M (buckle carrier)
Evenflo Natural Fit (buckle carrier similar to an Ergo)
Infantino (various buckle styles)


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Mei Dais/Beh Dais/Mei Tais. These carriers are also very versatile, for newborns through young toddlers. They are adjustable between body types as well. They can be worn on front, back, and hip, and are fairly simple to learn to use. 

BabyHawk
Catbird Baby 
Wallypop (models with padded shoulder straps)
Soul Slings Meh Dai (some models)
Lenny Lamb Wrap Tai (some colors)
BaBy SaBye (some models)







Buckle Carriers. These carriers are generally best once baby is past the newborn/small infant stage. They can be worn with baby on front and back. I recommend trying them on before buying (or buying from somewhere that has a generous return policy) if possible, because they all fit a bit differently. Each person has a different body shape and size, and buckle carriers are like jeans - they don't fit everyone the same! 

Easy Feel (read my review here) 
Action Baby Carrier
Lillebaby Essentials
Soul Slings (some models)
Pognae Baby Carrier
Bitybean (a compact, narrower carrier, can be used in water)
MobyGo
Boba Air (good for travel, packs down very small)

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​(This post is the fourth in a series about choosing and using a woven wrap. See Part 1 here, Part 2 here, and Part 3 here). 

Today's post is for the crafty folks - how to make a DIY (do it yourself) woven wrap. While some people prefer to buy a wrap specially made for carrying babies, others choose to make their own wrap. Hopefully this guide will help. 

The basic things to know are: type of fabric, dimensions, and "how to." 

Recommended types of fabric 

• Osnaburg - it is a muslin-like material, natural/off-white in color with darker specks on it. It may feel a bit scratchy. This material should be "scoured" before using in order to clean it. 
• Duck cloth - may feel stiff, like canvas, on the bolt. It will soften up with washing, drying, and using. 
• 100% cotton or linen "bottom weight" fabric (usually near the denim). 
• Cotton jacquard tablecloths (Mahogany on Amazon, Threshold at Target, or Christmas Tree Shop) make excellent short wraps.
• Gauze - this can be a good warm-weather option. It requires careful wrapping, especially with heavier babies, in order to not "dig." Most people recommend it only be used in carries with 3 passes (layers) over the baby. 

Fabric types to avoid

• Polyester blends, including athletic mesh
• Quilter's cotton/calico
• Anything stretchy (like jersey/knits)
• Anything (even if it meets the criteria of the first list) that says "stain resistant" or "clean by wiping with a damp cloth - these fabrics are treated and not recommended for use as a baby wrap

Dimensions​
There is a lot of information about wrap sizes (that's another whole post!) but for now, we'll cover some basics. Wrap sizing can be confusing, but in general, most new wrappers start with a long wrap that will allow them to do Front Wrap Cross Carry. This size is also known as "base size." This list may help you decide which size is for you: 

• For very small/thin people, that length is a size 4, or 3.6 meters.
• For smaller people that length is a size 5, or 4.2 meters.
• For average size people, that length is a size 6, or 4.6 meters.
• For larger size people, that length is a size 7, or 5.2 meters.
• For very large size people, that length is a size 8, or 5.6 meters. 

Remember, you can always cut a wrap shorter, if you find it is too long for you - so err on the side of too long! Also this fabric will shrink about 20% when you wash it so be sure to account for that when you buy, and add enough extra so that you'll have the length you want in you final product.

Osnaburg fabric is usually 60" off the bolt. A wrap width of about 28" works well for most people, so you will have enough for two wraps! 

Step by step directions
1. Buy your fabric (see above).
2. Wash and dry it twice (wash on hot).
3. Scour the fabric if using osnaburg or another undyed fabric (see instructions here: http://www.rootsimple.com/2012/05/how-to-prep-fabric-for-dyeing-scouring/
4. Cut your fabric in half. Measure at the midway point (if your fabric is 60" wide). Cut an inch snip and then rip down the middle. This should be more accurate than cutting with scissors. 
5. Cut the tapers. This is not absolutely necessary, but most woven wraps have tapered edges to make tying knots less cumbersome. A 45 degree angle should work fine. Your finished wrap should look like a parallelogram, not a trapezoid. 
6. Hem your fabric. If you iron and inch fold all around, then hemming should be easier. You need to do a rolled hem. Cotton thread works fine. Sew very close to the fold! This tutorial is helpful, especially for the corners: http://www.sleepingbaby.net/jan/Baby/rehem.html
7. You're almost done! 
8. Last step! Make a middle marker to denote the center of the wrap. You can use anything for this: Fabric pen, ribbon, thread in a contrasting color. Most people like to have a middle marker on both edges (top and bottom). 

You're done! Go wrap your baby!

(This post is the third in a series about choosing and using a woven wrap. See Part 1 here and Part 2 here).

Today's post contains "everything you need to know" to make a secondhand wrap purchase. 

Some benefits of buying secondhand

• Secondhand wraps may be more “broken in” - meaning softer and a bit easier to wrap with. As you use your wrap, you will find it molds better around you and your baby’s body. 
• Wrap designs and colors are discontinued regularly, and buying secondhand gives you more options than just buying what is in stock at a retailer.
• Your dollar may stretch a bit further. It is not uncommon for certain (not all!) used wraps to sell for less than new wraps.
• If you are the sentimental sort, you might enjoy the thought that the wrap you use to wrap your baby previously snuggled another baby.

Some risks of buying secondhand

• Because the wrap is used, it may have stains, holes, long pulls, and more, and the seller might overlook these unless you ask specifically.
• The USPS is far from perfect, and your wrap might get lost in the mail. Consider paying a little extra for the seller to purchase insurance to cover any loss. 
• You may be buying a wrap from a home with allergens that trigger you or your family, such as pet hair or fragrances. If these things bother you, ask about them specifically.

Where to buy secondhand
If you have an active local babywearing community, you may be able to find a wrap you like for sale within your community. Many local babywearing groups allow buying/selling/trading of carriers in their Facebook groups. You might also be able to find a secondhand wrap at a consignment sale or even listed on your local Craigslist.

If you cannot find one locally, there are many online options for buying secondhand.

• The Babywearing Swap - this is the largest Facebook group dedicated to buy/sell/trade of baby carriers. It can be overwhelming when you first look, as it moves quickly and people may be speaking in a confusing jargon about the carriers. Be sure to read the rules indicated in the pinned post and then you will have some guidance in navigating the group.
• ​Babywearing on a Budget - this is a Facebook buy/sell/trade group where only carriers $100 or less may be listed. It is smaller than The Babywearing Swap but still very active.
• The Babywearer.com - this is a forum dedicated to all things babywearing. Within this site, there are forums for buying/selling/trading all kinds of carriers. You will need to register for this site (it’s free!) in order to gain access.
• If you are certain about the brand you would like to buy, there are Facebook groups dedicated to “chatter” and often buy/sell/trade for specific brands. Just search for them on Facebook.

Basic buy/sell/trade group guidelines and etiquette:

• Each swap group has its own set of rules, so the first guideline is to READ and FOLLOW the rules for that group. 
• On swap pages, payment is handled via PayPal. You should have a PayPal account set up, and you should make sure that your mailing address is correct, and that account is "verified." You should send your payment as "goods" (not gifted) in order to have buyer protection. Some sellers prefer to invoice your PayPal, and some do not. You can ask the seller, "would you prefer to invoice me, or have me send PayPal directly?"
• If you find a wrap you want to buy, or might be interested in buying, send a private message to the seller, and comment on their listing: "sent pm.". Sellers have the right to sell to whomever they want, so even if you are the first to comment or message the seller, you may not get the item. If you have questions about the wrap that may affect your decision to purchase, ASK THEM before stating you want to buy it. If you REALLY want the item, you can say "as long as this wrap is in excellent condition (or whatever your deal breaker is), I'd like to buy it."
• The general rule of swaps is that there are no refunds/returns. So, ask all of the questions you have before you commit to buying. Common questions that would be prudent to ask (if this information is not in the listing) are:
  • What is the condition of this wrap?
  • Are there any holes, stains, weird smells, large pulls, or broken threads?
  • Is your home free from cigarette smoke, pet hair, fragrance?
  • Can you please measure this wrap for me? (in the case of woven wraps, sometimes people think they have a particular size wrap and they list it as such, but it may be shorter (or far too long). It doesn't hurt to ask for measurements.
  • It is considered bad form to "lead on" the seller by asking a million questions and then not replying. If their answers change your mind about buying, just let them know.
• You should also ask to be sure that shipping and fees are included in their price. American sellers typically include these, often sellers from other countries do not. Most sellers ship Priority and should provide you with a tracking number when they ship. Most good sellers will ship within a day or two. Sometimes it will take an extra couple of days. When you have babies, things get busy!
• Some sellers are open to short-term payment plans, if you make a non-refundable down payment. You can always ask them if they are open to this. Be sure to clearly define the terms of the payment plan with the seller so all parties are clear on how it will happen!
• In most swap groups, you need to join the associated feedback group and make a feedback post. Even if your feedback is empty (which as a new member it will be!), some sellers will want to see your feedback link. It is a good idea to search the feedback group for the feedback of the seller and review it before you contact them or buy the wrap, to be sure they are someone who is trustworthy! The swaps run on trust.
• Many sellers keep an eye on their messages and will respond quickly. If you send a message, be prepared to answer (or let them know if you're going to be away, and when you will be back). Sellers are likely to sell to the first person who asks for or offers a PayPal address.
• Finally, just remember if you decide to buy used, these are just regular moms and dads like you, trying to sell their wraps, and that communication is key. A seller is going to appreciate you asking questions and being sure about your purchase. Be polite and things should go smoothly. 

Buying a new wrap is great and buying secondhand can also be lots of fun! However, if you are more of a do it yourself type, stay tuned for the next post, about making a DIY wrap.